Can Marriage Survive in Today’s Society?
There seems to be a high statistic of people getting divorced now and with financial pressure and that ever ticking biological clock, it’s not surprising our marriages fail. I believe we should love each other endlessly and be forever forgiving and when we marry it should be for life, but for some reason, ‘life’ gets in the way.
Hasn’t it been said that it is better to have loved and lost? And for once I agree we get married for a reason and we get divorced for a reason but we spend so much time trying to better things for ourselves and families we often forget the ones we love are sometimes fading into the background.
Remember your marriage is for life and things are never as bad as they may seem and sometimes all that’s needed is a little more communication between you, what may start out uncomfortable could actually make you a solid part of a great team forever!
So how long does it take for us to realize our marriage is over? Probably at the last moment just as the other person walks out or says they’ve had enough.
Maybe losing a marriage and gaining a friend would make us happy eventually, after all no marriage no pressure right? In today’s society are we under too much pressure to be successful and have a loving family indoors? Without marriage can we still have that security that someone will always be there for us when times are hard, or is marriage now something trendy for a ‘good day out?’
Marriages break up for many reasons to which we may or may not be at fault for, but I believe we should work on our marriage after all we must have loved each other once!
I am a little old fashioned and personally believe marriage is forever and is something that gets better as time goes on and there seems to be plenty of help out there should you need it or just want ideas to spice things up at home and stop ‘life’ getting in the way. We can keep our marriage alive with the love and strong bond we had originally. Sometimes we could all do with a little reminder of how fantastic our other halves really are!
By: Abi Smith
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Filed under 5005 by on Sep 4th, 2010. 